Semester 2 week 2

What was the topic for discussion?

Idk ???

we didn't talk about it last week.

It was sex education in France.

What do you think about sex education in school and at home?

Are you worried that this generation are learning about sex from pornographic websites?

I'm worried that pornography is giving a false picture of sex to teenagers. The access is very easy, and that's not really a problem, but young adults needs to understand that what they see isn't what is gonna happen when they'll have sexual relationships. I'm not against sexfriends, but it seems like they are not awared of the risks and problems that can occur with this way to do. Another problem that takes place at the beginning is the parents ; they are the closest people to their children and need to keep an eye on their evolution to eventually be able to have a serious talk with them when the time is coming. If this first step is missed, then the whole following situation starts with very bad bases.
However, schools are trying to give sexual education lessons. The idea is good, but the problems is that most of the teachers giving this lessons are miles away from what is really happening in teenager's lives. Moreover, with the fashion of « being soooooo tolerating », teenagers thinks they knows everything better than everying and incousciously refuse the help that is given to them.

I think that sex education is still too little present in our society. Fortunately the series "sex education" is out and can allow young people to identify with the characters and thus better understand sexuality.
In addition, if parents do not teach their children what sexuality is, they will learn it differently and therefore may be through pornographic sites.

It is a very interesting and complex subject. First i think that pornography take an important place in teeneager's lives but too much place... it is too easy to go watch a pornographic video, so young people want to know what is having a sex relation, they want to discover their body and have news experience but pornography is not the real life and it is not the reality of what there are going to live. It is a false "ideal", their imagination will be made on a false reality.
So, when they will discover the reality of their first sex relation maybe it will be a disillusionment, they will be disapointed and that why sometimes boys want more, because they want the same thing as in pornographic videos. It is the role of the education ( family, and school), parents must dare to talk about it with their children. This is why sex in couples is sometimes complicated, you have to confront the reality of your relationship and learn to listen the other.

I think that the fact that the new generations have access to pornographic sites, teach them false things, and that they have a false idea of ​​how the sexual act takes place; indeed pornography is not reality at all, it is an over representation of real life.
I think it would be necessary to transmit the reality to the pre-teenagers, from the college so that he is aware of the reality and that they do not find suprised at the times come by false ideas. It would be good to do courses, COMPULSORY, and prevention.
I think it would be necessary to transmit the reality to the pre-teenagers, from the college so that he is aware of the reality and that they do not find suprised at the times come by false ideas. It would be good to do courses, COMPULSORY, and prevention.
I think that sex education is still very taboo in France, especially between parents and children, when it is quite natural.

I think that sex education is a taboo subject because it's hard to talk about it but young people must be made aware of this subject. I think that sex education can be important at school but it must be said by professionals. Moreover at home parents are most important to talk about this subject to their children.
Then about this generation are learning about sex from pornographic websites, i'm worried because this is very easy to young people to access on pornographic websites with phone, computer etc...
This pornographic websites are not sufficiently protected.

Sex education can lead young adults to delay their first intercourse or, if they are already sexually active, to use contraception.
National education should take this into account and give young people the opportunity to get to know their bodies and their sexuality. The "sex education" series on netflix teaches us a lot about this and schools and parents should take their cue from it.
Today, the young people with the screens go a lot on the same pornographic sites if that influences them, it is the new generations.

I think that sexual education at school is a good idea, because it will present to all the students how to take care of themselves, what are the risks and it gives them someone to talk to if they have doubts or questions. I also think that parents have a role to play in the sexual education of their children, as they have a privilegiated contact with them. They have to keep an eye on them to be able to determinate when is the best moment to have a talk with them, in order to keep a healthy relationship and be present if they need to, because that is very important.
To me, pornographics websites should be more protected and have a more difficult access, because if gives the viewers a false picture of the sexuality. Once more, parents should be able to have a good contact with their children to prevent them from learning only via websites.

I find that sex education in France, both at school and at home, is not sufficiently present. Indeed, it is a subject that concerns young people at an increasingly early age, even though they do not know much about it. I think it would be important to have more sex education in schools and that parents are not afraid or ashamed to tell their children about it, because that would avoid bad situations for many young people. Pornographic films provide a bad image of sexual relations and are not suitable for sex education. They are more suitable for people who already have experience than for young people who are just beginning to discover this world.

Oh! Sex is such a taboo when it is perhaps the only thing in the world that EVERYONE does, except, of course, those who made vows of chastity which is probably a mistake but it's their choice (or not sometimes... but anyway) and we can't debate about that.
But sex, yes, is a subject that we Don't really talk but why? It's inside us so why? why do not explain how children are made concretely and not by using images? Why do not talk about pleasure? There is a lot of questions that no one wants to answer and again, WHY?
I think we have to know the Truth, we have to know what exactly sex is.
Because when we are young we Don't know what is it, we are getting to try to understand what sex is. the easy solution is to surf on the web and see a lot of pornographics videos which createa false fantasy espacially for boys AND mens. The woman's pleasure is totally abrogated and the male who is watchig at these kind of videos, is not conscious about it.
Sex should not be a taboo subject ! Religions has made it a subject taboo so the problem is deeper than we expect…
Even if there is a kind of democratisation about it, there is still a lot of people who are stuck in their way to think sex.
We are young, we are the future and we have to do the dirty job. We have to break old rules and to talk about sex and about everything behind it.
because behind sex there is also the gender equality.

I am convinced that if we talk more about sex, if we loosen languages, if we make people understand, aware about what sex really is, there will be fewer rapes.
Anyway, talking, sharing is the beginning for our freedom.

I think that in France we are very late on this subject. Clearly from an academic point of view it is catastrophic. These are not the two courses of "sex education" in college, where they teach us how to put a condom on a banana that are enough ... I will not say that they are of no interest but it is not far from it. Then at home I think it depends on the families, and of course education that are received our parents. Personally they are very open on the subject and if a conversation on sex took place during the meal it would not be frowned upon. But unfortunately I have already seen parents of friends yelling at us because we talked about it in front of them ("this is not the place to talk about it", "it is not appropriate" ...). And what about some places where people take offense to see that you kiss someone and look at you like an alien, you're going to tell me it's nothing but it starts there ... So yes I worry about young people who will learn sex on porn sites, because it is a total staging. In "real life" this rarely happens like this, and young people are therefore not aware of what they do when they find themselves in a real situation.

First of all, let me talk about sex education in school thanks to my experience. After primary school during what naturally we don’t really speak about sex, i am going in a private college. Place where the people start to talk about this subject. However in my private college, I don't know why, but none of the professors told us about it, whereas in other colleges my friends told me that they had talked about it. And when I was in high school, not to mention the theory about the natural processes that take place during meiosis and fertilization we didn’t really talk about the sex. Obvisouly i think i have did my sex education outside of the class. So I think my sex education comes from hearing about it around me. For some family sex is a taboo, this is not the case for my family. Even if we don’t talk about the details i know if i have a problem or a question i can ask my fathers and they can answer me without undue embarrassment. Finally, the industry of pornographic websites had increase in the last years thanks to the develop of the access on internet that's why I think a lot of people have done their sex education through these sites because of a lack of knowledge about it. The problem is that these people have an image of sex that is not the reality.

The sex education at school is a really important subjects, but hard to touch with is it.
I think that is the role of a professional to talk about it with the young children, because it's not an easy subjects.
But if it is doing great, it's gonna be only good thing for the childrenn, because today with the massive presence of internet, there is some peoples who learns sex education by the way of video not very catholic..

Sex education in school and home, now a day this topic is verry important, in one hand for the healty with the illness, inform people for avoid a people sick. So, but not just for that, because the new generation now a day is précocious. they would take like adult or older without inquire of danger. Talk with the student of sex education in the surrounding neutral like school with professor is complicate and interesting. In the other hand sadly the youth learn the sex with the web site pornographic, and younger and younger, it's terrible because they think the sex and pornographie it's identical, no, because the pornographi is the cinema, is fake, and give a idea false of the sex. Pornography goes so far as to give a degrading image of the woman or the man and encourage young people to think so, encourage young people to think that this is normal.

It was S.S

Most of us saw Sex Education season 2 last week on Netflix, which pushes to question ourselves about sex education in school and at home while describing Otis’ life who assist fellow student with their sex and relationship problems knowing that he has no experience at all, thus questioning his legitimacy. On the contrary Jean, his mother, is a professional sex therapist called by the head teacher to help Moordale students, a British high school hit by a chlamydia outbreak at the return from the summer.

In fact panic, and above all lack of understanding, due to STI with a high demand for any kind of advices demonstrate that prevention and information measure aren’t efficient at all, although teachers try. Definitely sex education is really insufficient or almost non-existent at school, and quite often too taboo at home to be an efficient remedy.

On the other hand, I worry a lot about the fact that our generation, and even more the youngest, are learning about sex from pornographic website, which doesn’t represent reality and gives teenagers erroneous picture of, as well as showing bad image for women. Indeed there is a real danger owing to an easy and free access, it can also become an alienating addiction, if it come before social life or a healthy physical activity, taking too much place in life. Furthermore that kind of website will never adopt subject as contraception, priority being making blameless teen clicks on add in streaming site for example.

Sex education in France at school and that too weak at least that presented by school programs, it is even downright non-existent.
At home, education depends on parents: on those who dare to talk about it and those who ignore it, in most cases today children educate themselves alone on board and / or with their friends.

For later I do not fear that children can educate themselves with ponographic sites since from the moment they have access to the internet they will have the curiosity to go there at least once, because these sites are only protect too little. It will therefore be necessary to explain to them that this is not the reality ... And this can only be done at home as long as the school programs are not adapted.

Sex education in France. ...
in France, sex is unfortunately very taboo.
The Frenchman is very quickly shocked when a sexual word is uttered. It's because of
sex education given to young French people. Sex education in schools is approached very delicately,
even the teacher becomes uncomfortable talking about sexuality to his students,
So how do you want sex not to be taboo in France?
You have to let go of that, not being stuck talking about it is very important. So even the parentstalk to your children about sexuality or they will live in ignorance or fear of talking about their problems
that this sexuality causes him.
I think seeing videos on pornographic sites is part of adolescence,
the problem is that the teenager may not be aware that it's not just that, that's why
we need to talk about sexuality.

It was Romain Robert

Sex is always a sensitive subject to abord. However some families will be more open to discuss about sex than others. This leads to differences in our sex educations. At school, when we were in surroundings of 12 to 14 years old, we thought wrong about sexual relationship. Sex education at this place didn't help a lot with that; the only thing that we can remember is that we would have to use condom, not even how to use it! Due to this lack of information, children take refuge in porno websites. This content is capable of building a part of the child's sex education but not totaly. Sex is not just a vaginal penetration with a penis, it is a way among many other. So far sex education by porno is a better method than at school in France, without being a good one. I think real sex education in France is still a taboo because it stems from archaic thoughts of patriarchy, where men are the single focus of the country. That's why we don't even less know female sex than male sex.
The end word is: you must have watched Sex Education serie, you need to talk about sexual orientation and contact your companion during the relation!

Sex education can be positive or negative depending on how we educate it I think it is good to learn the basics or young people who arrive in adolescence but on our side life is always the same and its children will learn by themselves according to their mistakes you can not teach everything and anything to children it is also sometimes necessary to learn by yourself

Personally my vision of this subject will be very quick and simple: I think that sex education in France is still far too taboo and this is a real problem. At a certain age you should be able to educate yourself about sex as easily and without filters as when you learn to drive. Sex education at school is not at all advanced enough and this obviously reflects the embarrassment that the French can feel when they speak or express themselves on the subject. Then I think that sexual education in families is very different from one household to another. For example I have a friend who is able to tell his mother about all his sexual frolics while me it's going to be totally impossible to talk about anything with my mother simply because it's very taboo in my family.

Learning sex education at school is an interesting subject because it is an important learning but it is also very taboo because very difficult to explain. This also warns young people about prevention. I would say that professionals must come and explain to them like that, they will not take this subject lightly. Unfortunately young people learn through pornographic websites, and increasingly younger. They think that pornography corresponds to reality only it's not the case. This gives a bad image of women and relationships. We must therefore be careful and not believe everything that is shown and said on the internet.

The theme of the week is sex education, in the curriculum this should take place in the 4th grade, i.e. in the college. I don't have much memory of these courses, which is to say how interesting it must have been. The teacher was uncomfortable during these courses because in France sex is a sensitive subject.
In high school this subject was not reviewed, so we were not informed about it or very little.
To recover this delay a series is present it is about "sex education" which shows a small part of the problems to which the teenagers can be exposed.
However, it is still a series and not a course or even documents that could inform and enlighten us.